I’m sorry to hear about it all. I lost touch with a girl that I still think about every day. It’s pretty rough, I know exactly what you mean, I wish I had never done anything with this girl. I think the best thing to do is surround yourself with friends who make you happy, and time will heal. If its her decision to not talk as much, its something she’s gotta work through. Hopefully she comes around.

And wait, how old are you? I didn’t think anybody on the forum (save for Ninty) was the right age to be getting married.

I’m 19 and she will be in October. So yeah, she’s stil pretty young which is why I was still surprised with her saying that already.

And yeah, like I said I’ve been trying to keep myself as busy as I can. Went and did some helping out in a more run down area of town today, but now I’ve got homework and don’t feel like doing anything.

It won’t last. Super-young marriages like that almost never do.

Well I hope she really does the latter thing that she says and waits. I mean, she’s barely known him for a year, less if you’re just counting how long they’ve been going out.

Give it time and this will pass too.

Getting married during college is a BAD BAD idea. What if after they graduate decide to go to grad school and they are across the country from each other? And they have money and studies to worry about and now planning a wedding? Yikes!

If she is worried about her bf finding about you and her being friends, they are definitely not ready to be married. That throws up a red flag that communication/trust is definitely not there.

Do you know her bf? I know a couple of my friends became friends with the ’significant other’ (indirectly) and realized they had a lot in common and pretty soon forgot about the guy/girl. Typing it out makes it seem that it would be harder to forget about her but if you have something in common with the bf, it actually would make it that much easier to forget about her. Guys don’t talk about wedding and all the mushy details. Invite other guy friends along too. Make it a guy thing and pretty soon you’ll forget all about the feelings for her.

There are many many other girls out there. You’ll soon find one perfect for you.

Sorry, I’m a smiley whore lol

Yeah, I actually met him first in another class, I just never got to know him as well as she did. I know he likes games and stuff, though there are few guys who don’t so... I don’t really know what all he likes. They’ll both be coming to this college next year, so I dunno. Hopefully I’ll find somebody else that will make me forget too.